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Kicked Out of Disney World: A Less-Than-Perfect Family Vacation

Featured Image: Disney World 2017 by canterbury

With the summer around the corner, kids getting out of school, and family vacations being planned, I figured it may be fun to share one of my favorite family vacation experiences. Although that trip was less than perfect, it’s one of my favorite memories because when I bring it up today, my family and I have a good laugh as we reminisce on our less-than-awesome ideas. Also, I’ve told this story on my favorite radio station before, and I ended up winning tickets to an event I no longer recall. So, let’s have a laugh and let me tell you a story – after all, it’s Fun Friday! 🙂

When I was about 12 years old one of my brothers was working as an intern at Disney World, in Florida. One of the perks of working there was that you could offer your family a one-day pass to a theme park of their choice (or maybe all the parks? I don’t know – it was a long time ago). So, one day my brother invites us (our mom, my brother and then sister-in-law, my little brother, and a family friend) to come to Disney World and have some fun. Of course, we packed our bags and headed over to the dreamlike place, duh!

Our first day at Disney was no less than magical – it was my first time and I was loving it! Although, my little brother didn’t want to get in any of the fun rides because he was “scared,” so we stuck to all the sissy ones – but that’s OK, I was just happy to be there. I took pictures with Goofy, got autographs from Mikey Mouse and Minnie Mouse, so it was going swell. How could anything possibly go wrong?

As it turns out, we didn’t get our “Disney fix” with just one day of fun; you need several days to fully enjoy the wonders of Disney, so we decided that we wanted to go again the next day and enjoy a different theme park. Here’s the problem: my brother was only allowed a one-day pass, so we would need to buy our tickets in order to continue our adventure. As most of you know, Disney is PRETTY expensive, so of course my ingenious older brothers had to come up with a way around that.

When it came to my mother, our friend, my little brother and myself, my mother said there was no way we were going to get into any shenanigans, so we purchased our tickets for day two (good woman, my mother 🙂 ). My older brothers, however, had a different perspective, and my poor brother’s wife was inevitably dragged into it. Since my Disney-employed brother had a few sets of uniforms, he figured that my brother and his then-wife could wear these uniforms and just go in the park as if they were employees. And it actually seemed like a fail-proof plan, so that’s what they did.

Many of you may or may not know that Disney has some very strict policies on employee apparel and appearance – they only allowed closed-toed shoes, and you had to be clean-shaved, just to name a few. This, however, was something my brothers seemed to have forgotten to take into consideration. So, as my non-Disney-employee brother begins to walk into the park through the employee entrance, he is wearing open-toed sandals, has a very noticeable 4-inch-long goatee, and to top it all off he smiles at the security camera and gives the peace sign as he casually walks on by. Wondering what happened next?

Needless to say, they were caught. While the rest of us were waiting for them inside the park, we received a call from my brother (the Disney intern) and he let us know that the plan failed. My brother and his wife were interrogated for like an hour, seeing as how the idea of this scheme was so bizarre that the security staff thought they might be terrorists. Eventually they were let go, although banned from going to Disney ever again (that’s what they were told, anyway). My brother, the intern, was fired from his job, but it was his last day anyway so he didn’t seem to be heavily affected >_<. As for the rest of us, I can’t remember if we were asked to leave due to association or if we just decided to leave due to the circumstances…? Either way – my second day at Disney was ruined!

After going through a big scare thinking that my brother was going to jail, I was relieved to find out that they were only kicked out and banned. Disney seemed to understand that they weren’t terrorists; they were just young and recklessly creative boys (to put it nicely). Things didn’t turn out as we expected, but we quickly started to laugh about it and how stupid it was to even think that was a good idea. In the end, we created a memorable story and had some good laughs, and I’ll be happy to tell the story to my children one day – when I know they will be wise enough not to try that themselves. This taught me that good times are not about the places you go to, or about having everything go perfect; it’s about the people you spend it with, and the memories you create. So go have some fun with your family and loved ones today, and make some great memories! Just don’t try to sneak into Disney; it will not go well.

Have a great weekend!

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By Nayadee Wilson

Getting Your Mojo Back After The Holidays

Even as I write this I am struggling to keep my focus and motivation. What others would call “writer’s block,” I am calling procrastination. To be fair, I believe that this is simply the effect from a cause that we all know too well: the “After-Holiday Blues” (I think I just made that name up, but you get my drift). There is no doubt that returning to work after the freedom of the holidays is hard; the heavy thought of “I don’t feel like going to work today” fills our mind like an ugly plague. To get out of the wishing-for-a-never-ending-holiday stage, here are some ideas that may help in getting your mojo back and start up some motivation.

Music heals all.

One thing you may want to try is playing some cheery music (quietly, if allowed) while you’re working. Music has the amazing effect of altering the way we feel. Playing music while you work will make you feel happier, and in turn, more productive and motivated to work. I, for example, like to listen to talk shows while I work – not necessarily “music,” I know, but it is something that soothes me and makes me feel good. When I don’t have my talk shows on, I love to listen to upbeat songs and have my own little party – you could do the same 🙂 . Additionally, if you wanted to keep the holiday season going in your own way, go ahead and play songs like “Sleigh Ride” (one of my favorites) over and over until you’re satisfied – whatever makes you happy! Whether cheery music means sad country songs or super upbeat Christmas songs, choose whatever works for you; get working while enjoying the beat.

Something nice to have.

I am always like a little kid on a sugar rush any time I have anything new – it could be something as simple as a nice pen (I do love nice pens *_*). If you’ve received something nice during the holidays and you can bring it to work, go ahead and take that with you. Having something nice to look at, especially something you really enjoy, will make you feel more at home and boost your mood. I’d recommend even getting some nice office supplies of your own (or something related to the job that you do) so that you’re motivated to use it. New things are always exciting! These can range from really cool mouse pads, to awesome pens, a fancy calculator, or even just a plant for your desk or a new picture for your screen background. Today, for me, my nice thing to have was a really nice sweater that I got over the holidays. I feel pretty and uplifted, and that is what counts! 🙂 Of course, not everyone has the same likes/dislikes, just make sure that you find something that makes you feel inspired and bring it with you – whatever that may be.

There is always a first step.

This blog is a prime example of the power of this tip. I was not initially motivated to start this, but without thinking I just opened up Word Document and started writing – now here we have a blog. Every job or task that you have needs to start somewhere, and all you have to do is take that first step. Chances are that once you get started on your task, you will gain momentum and follow through with the project; even if it is just for that day (then you have to take that first step again, the next day). Usually the first step is always the hardest to take, but, in most cases, it will always be the most simple. You will quickly find that just a few minutes after taking that step, you’ve actually already made some great progress. 🙂

We can be merry all year round.

I know there are times in which we all wish for longer breaks, but what fun would that be? After all, our breaks serve as great satisfaction after a job well done. Although some may be wishing for the holiday season to just be over with, most of us can agree that, even so, coming back to work can be mentally challenging. At least now you know that there is no need to fret, and you can easily get your groove back in the workplace. Just because the holiday season is over doesn’t mean that you can’t carry it on in your own way, if you wanted to. For this New Year, remember to stay merry, and never stop showcasing the best of your talents – that is what you are there to do!

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By Nayadee Wilson

 

 

 

4 Tips to Make the Best out of your Vacation

The holiday season is finally here (well, it actually got here before we could blink!), which means you may be planning a vacation soon, or hosting a family gathering of your own where you may be taking some time off. Vacations, in my opinion, are a must; they are relaxing, refreshing, motivating, and needed for continuous productivity. Last week my husband and I headed over to Albuquerque, New Mexico, and took a 10-day family vacation with our kids. Although we had a great time with the rest of my family, there were some things I did that I was thankful for, while there were some other things that I wish I had done a tiny bit better. If you’re thinking about taking a vacation (and you should – everyone needs a break!), here are some things to keep in mind.

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My son Liam – just about the only fully prepared child (of mine) for the weather.

I think the weather should be nice.

You’d think that I would learn from experience, since I’ve been to Albuquerque during the month of November before, but I didn’t. For some reason I always think I’m going to some haven of awesome, nice, warm weather (maybe I subconsciously make a silly connection between Mexico and New Mexico?), only to find a very dry and brisk Albuquerque chill. One thing I would definitely recommend for you to do is to check the weather of your destination ahead of time, and be precise – otherwise you could be in for a rude awakening. My husband did check the weather for us, and he said it was going to be in the 50’s. Being from Buffalo, NY, I thought “OK, 50’s is not so bad. Light jackets and some sweaters will do.” However, I came to find that 50 degrees in Buffalo is not the same 50 degrees in Albuquerque; New Mexico feels much drier, and the cold breeze felt like sharp little needles on my skin. Additionally, the 50-degree weather only came about for a good two days 😦 ; every other day was in the 40’s or 30’s (one day it dropped to 28 degrees! >_< ). At one point, when hiking back from some cool rock formations (Kasha-Katuwe Tent Rocks), I desperately started to sprint back to our vehicle because I was so cold that my entire thighs were itching in freezing pain. Moral of the story: don’t just check the weather in terms of general temperatures; make sure you also check the “Feels Like” temperature for your destination and pack what you will need. That way you’re not scrambling around trying to see how many layers would make a good substitute for a winter jacket (like I did). Or, if the opposite happens, where it’s hotter than expected, you’d avoid trying to figure out how many articles of clothing you can remove before unwanted exposure happens >_<.

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Photo Credit: Creative Commons – Johan Siegers (but I could totally see myself doing this)

Not sure if I’ll need this, but I’ll take it just in case.

I’m sure I am not alone here, but I have a minor tendency to over-pack (OK, so maybe it’s not so minor – I do it all the time). Over-packing for your trip is not just time consuming, but it is truly a big nuisance. For those of you who are flying, make sure that you become aware of any baggage fees that your airline may have in place (including the WHOPPING fees for any baggage that is overweight – 50lbs max). During our trip, I packed so many diapers for the kids that you’d think we were staying there for a month (which was silly, really; we could have just bought more diapers there if we ran out), taking up a lot of space in our carry-on. Additionally, in our main luggage, I packed so many unnecessary things (makeup that I never wear, hair products, “going-out” outfits that I never used), that it tipped the scale for the maximum weight allowed on the plane. Now we were going through this luggage, in front of everyone, taking things out just to make it under the weight limit; our hands were absolutely full throughout the rest of the flight. Moral of the story: You really don’t need as much as you think you do. The best vacations happen when you’re worry-free, and you’re not being weighed down with things that ultimately serve no purpose. Pack what you need, and think about the things that you could easily obtain at your destination – travel as light as you possibly can, because it is soooo worth it, trust me.

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Our Thanksgiving feast! Luckily, everything was delicious (mostly)

It’s dinner time!

For those of you who will not be cooking, this may not be a critical thing to worry about, but it still may be a good idea to look for where and what you will be eating ahead of time (or what you will serve your guests, if you are hosting), and how it will affect you financially. Most people don’t think about this, but small meal preparations should take just a few minutes and it will save you time and effort in the future. If you don’t want to spend a load of cash eating out, maybe you can purchase some essentials while you’re there (bread, deli meats, etc.), and make some small meals if you can. For those of you who will be traveling and/or hosting, the following is a great tip. I cooked/baked a great portion of our thanksgiving meal this year, and one thing that I was very happy with was the fact that I created my menu ahead of time and wrote down all of the ingredients I would need. Something I regret, however, is not making some of these dishes beforehand as a “practice” round. Mostly everything was great (my turkey was pretty good, thank God!), but I attempted to make this new baked mac & cheese recipe that I had never made before, and, to say the least, it was just gross 😦 . I felt really bad for anyone eating it, and I desperately tried to steer people away once I saw anyone attempting to go for it. Moral of the story: maybe you’re a pro chef/baker, but if you’re making something you’ve never done before, make sure you have a “practice round” first; it may save you some embarrassment later.

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My brother Colbert (big head), my daughter, and myself: GoKarts (I’m pretty sure I beat everyone)

I’m ready for adventure 🙂

Whether you’re planning to just sit and relax or to go out and be active, it is always good to have some activities planned. Knowing the kinds of things you want to do will allow you to prepare around these, and it will make things much easier for your trip (or your guests). While in Albuquerque, we had days where we just stayed in, while also having days in which we would go hiking or sightseeing. Depending on the kind of crew you’ll be with, the kinds of activities you will be doing may vary, but never forget to add some fun to your schedule. Of course, if you’re traveling with kids this may be tricky; we attempted to take a stroller (a big, heavy-duty stroller) up the mountains when hiking the Kasha-Katuwe Tent Rocks. Only about 20 people on their way back from the top told us that the stroller would not make it very far :/ . Hence, some of the kiddos had to stay behind with grandma (the hike was a bit too epic for my mom and my little nuggets). Nevertheless, this was one of my absolute favorite moments of the trip, and we had a lot of fun! (I wonder if it had anything to do with the fact that I was child-free for 2 hours?). Moral of the story: Do some research and plan some fun. Even if you just like to relax, plan to go to a beach or somewhere similar where you can just sit back and enjoy the view. Creating memories with your family and/or friends (or just for yourself if you’re going solo) will make your vacation worthwhile.

Have a good time!

Now that you’ve gotten some ideas on how to start your vacation planning, make sure that you make the best of it. The steps you take to plan and prepare accordingly to ensure you have a good time could make or break your time away from work. Even if you are the spontaneous type, you can still just plan for the basic necessities of your trip; the less you have to worry about, the more gratifying your time will be. So mark that calendar, leave your stress behind, and don’t forget to enjoy yourself – you need a vacation just as much as you need anything else. As a man by the name of Alexander Babinets put it, “I have never believed that vacations are luxuries. They are our necessities–just like shelter, clothes, and food, they make us feel like humans and not like animals that care only for survival.”

Have fun! 🙂

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Happy Vacationing, from my family to yours! – Written by Nayadee Wilson